In
the military, it is said "There is a fine line between a fool and a
hero". Well, the same can be said for dreaming and planning. We can
only make plans on what information we have, the rest is really just
dreaming, and hoping or wishing. Fiona and I have talked about this
many times. We are hoping and praying we aren't just dreaming, but
really working off of what information and knowledge we have. I guess
time will tell.
We have had numerous people
“question” why we are wanting to do what we are wanting to do and
why are we doing it the way we are planning on doing it. Please,
don't anyone take offense. By making us question what and why we are
doing things just helps us to do better. It makes us and our plans
stronger. And it isn't just the internet, it is neighbors, family,
friends, co-workers. Sometimes, it seems no one understands. That is
fine with us, we aren't doing this for them. Fiona and I have always
done things “our way”. This post is not for any of you (or about
any of you). This is for us. It is to reaffirm to us what we are
doing and why. It is to help us rethink what is happening. It is to
help us recommit to our directions and plans. It is to reposition our
thoughts and plans to the here and now. It is to shine a light on our
future and its path.
I am sixty-five and do not
draw social security. I still work. We both still have reasonably
good health. Nothing that farm work wouldn't help. Too much sitting
around and thinking/worrying. I never have been good at the “laying
our worries at His feet” thing. The longer I delay social security,
the larger the check. But, “if you should die, you will have gained
nothing!” is always put forward to me. So? What concern is that.
Dead is dead. I won't be worrying about the “what if”. If I am
disabled, I'll still be getting my larger check. What about enjoying
your retirement? Daa? That is what life is for! Enjoy it! A preacher
once said: The breath you are taking, the heartbeat you are
experiencing, are the last ones you are guaranteed. That next one may
never arrive. I have seen too many people make retirement plans.
Then, one or both have a heart attack, stroke, cancer, or something,
and they die or are crippled/disabled for the rest of their lives.
Their savings are wiped out. Their retirement dreams are lost. What
did they accomplish? I wanted to travel and see the country. That was
one of my retirement dreams. I have seen all fifty states, much of
Canada, and some of Mexico, Japan, Philippines, Korea, Hong Kong,
etc. My retirement dream has been satisfied! Now what? I have had to
make new retirement dreams. (If she isn't hiding some dark secret
from me, Fiona is in the same position in her life.) We both want to
be as self-sufficient as possible for as long as possible. A big part
of that is growing our own plants and animals. For food and
enjoyment. Yes, we intend to eat them. (Or, as I tease her, “Mine
are pets, yours are for eating!” And that gets a “Why do mine
always have to make the ultimate sacrifice?”)
In case I have led you astray,
farming is not our retirement dream. Farming is just a means to an
end. I grew up in the hills of West Virginia. My Mother had a small
fabric shop. One day a woman came in for some thread or something.
Her husband was with her. My Father just happened to be in the shop
at the time. That man and my Father got to looking at each other. You
know how you see someone and you recognize them, but can't place
them. Well, that is how they were. They got to talking and figured
out that thirty some years before, they had worked together. My
Father asked him what he was doing now. He said: “Nothing. I just
retired and all I do is sit and watch TV. I have a yard about the
size of this building and I pay a boy to mow it for me. All I do is
sit and watch TV.” My Father told him that if that is all he did,
he would be dead in six months. Two months later, his obituary was in
the paper. He sat down and died.
My earliest memories of my
Dad's Father was of him in his early seventies. He had a farm, two to
five cows he milked (by hand) twice a day, a bunch of chickens,
several pigs/hogs, two or three horses, and a large garden. He used
the horses to work the garden. He grew almost all of the food for him
and my Grandmother, for our family, and for the animals. (We went
over and helped them a good bit.) She died at eighty-eight and him at
ninety-three.
My Mother's side of the family
has trouble with ninety-five. Her Grandmother died at ninety-five.
Her Father died at ninety-five. And her Mother died at ninety-five.
Her Grandmother fell down the steps off the back porch when she was
ninety-one and broke her hip in seventeen places. She was going out
to her garden and to feed her chickens. At ninety-four, she got off
the walker and on a cane. My Mother's Father had to give up his
spring ritual when he was eighty-eight. Every spring, he would hunt
down a she-coon and steal one of her cubs. He would raise it all
summer. It was free and had the roam of the place. Every fall,
whatever coon he had would run off back to the wild. He would be
coonless until the next spring. At eighty-eight, he said he just
couldn't get around in the woods like he used to. His first and
middle name was: David Crockett. Go figure! And her Mother had three
gardens and an orchard. At ninety-one, they talked her into giving up
one of her three gardens. She refused to give up the other two or the
orchard. She had a cellar in the basement. It was so full, every
summer she had to dump older food over the hill so she could use the
jars for canning new food. And she used the food in the cellar. She
had a good ten years worth of food in there. And I never saw any of
it spoiled. And it always tasted great.
In Deadwood, S. D., I went
through Boot Hill. I got several surprises. I thought Boot Hill was
for the poor and outlaws. The graves were well marked. There were
bankers and merchants and lawmen, etc. buried there. There were women
buried there. There were children buried there. There were Chinese
buried there. There were mass graves from mining accidents. It
appears that is where everyone was buried. But what really got me was
the ages. There were numerous accident victims from farm, forest and
mining. But, if it wasn't an accident, they fell into two classes:
the elderly and the young. Children as babies (infant mortality) and
childhood diseases. And then the elderly: in their eighties and
nineties. I hadn't thought of people from the 1800's living into
their eighties and nineties. Average life expectancy of forties?
Fiona and I were talking about this. The high childhood death rate
lowered the adult life expectancy to such a low level. If you made it
to adulthood, you had a long life ahead of you. But the death of
children pulled the overall life expectancy down into the forties.
Even the presidents had the same troubles. President Garfield had
seven children. Three of them died in childhood: at one, two, and
four. The others made it to seventy or eighty plus. Average Garfield
life expectancy of forties. And then medicine started kicking in and
helping the children. The increased life expectancy was from children
living longer, not adults. Adults were still dieing at the same ages.
My point to this rambling is
this: The man in my Mother's shop sat down and died. The people in
Deadwood that didn't die in an accident, lived a frontier type life
and lived into their eighties and nineties. My Mother and Father's
families lived active lives and lived into their eighties and
nineties. It is: “Use it or lose it”. Be active or die. Oh, yes.
A lot of it is the luck of the draw: genetics. Good genetics is a
great help. But genetics is only part of the game. It needs help. The
more help you give it, the better off you'll be. We're not guaranteed
that next breath, that next heartbeat. When God says come, you're
gone. But, be active. Do something to help yourself. Don't sit down
and wait for the grim reaper to come and harvest another soul.
The farm is our “life's
gym”. It is our way of being active: mentally and physically. We
know that time is running out. But we don't want to exist, we want to
live our lives, to be active. We both like plants and animals. Being
with them and working with and for them will be nice. Being able to
eat plants and animals that don't have all of the pharma and
chemicals will be really beneficial for our health. The fresh air to
breathe, even when you're in the barn shoveling manure, is something
to look forward to. Visions of “Green Acres”, I am not having. We
feel that growing as much as possible of our own plant and animal
food is a must, not just a desire or dream. So, our retirement dreams
come down to living a strong, healthy lifestyle that nourishes our
mind and body. Being able to share our bounty with family and friends
is just a nice bonus.
Why Kentucky??? It is such a
poor state. I grew up in a poor state: West Virginia. We used to say:
thank goodness for Kentucky. They were poorer than us.
Communism and unions are both
great ideas. Until you get people involved. They use it for their own
benefit, not the people's benefit. How did Jesse Jackson and Al
Sharpton become millionaires while the rest of their people are so
poor? I know, an over simplification. Well, maybe wealth is the same
way. There is nothing wrong with being rich, until you get people
involved. I know, it's not the money, it is the love of that money
that is the problem. A view from life's highway: it is the poor man
that will stop and help you while the rich man drives by laughing at
you and your luck. Oh, the poor man wants to be rich, for sure. But,
usually, he never will be. A poor man may not have much, but if you
are willing, he will usually share it with you in your time of need.
A rich man doesn't have enough to share. Oh, to be rich! But, oh,
more so, to have a soul.
We have numerous trips to
Kentucky. We have no problems with poor people. They have been
wonderful to us. They would make great neighbors. If you decide to
join us in Kentucky, leave your home and join us there, don't bring
your home with you. If your home is so great, stay there. The biggest
complaints in Texas about Californians is their desire to make Texas
into California. If California is so great, stay in California. Don't
come to Texas. Come to Texas to be a Texan, not a Californian. Be
willing and be prepared to change and join the locals. Don't come in
and try to change them. And don't lament what you left. If you miss
it, keep it to yourself. Or, go back home and leave us alone.
Why Kentucky? We will be on a
fixed retirement income. Lower cost of living equals our money going
further. Poor state? Less demand for the rich amenities that add very
little to life's worth. Rich people are often hollow people. They
have a hole in their life. They need more. They just can't be happy.
Possessions can't fill the hole. Only God can. Rich or poor, we all
have that hole. Years ago, I read of a reporter having an interview
with John D. Rockefeller. The way I remember the story is that John
D. was the richest man in the world. At the end of the interview, the
reporter told John D. that he didn't really seem to be happy. He
asked John D. what it would take to make him happy. John D. is
supposed to have said”Just a little bit more”. The richest man in
the world needed a little bit more to be happy. And that little bit
more still wouldn't make him happy. Only God could. What is that
about it being easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle
than for a rich man to enter Heaven?
Teasing aside, Kentucky is not
that poor. It has poor areas, but it has richer areas, also. Just
like anywhere else.
Kentucky has a lower cost of living, so our money
goes further. And it has a climate suitable to us for raising crops
and animals without burning up (further south) or freezing to death
(further north). Oh, we know, it gets hot, and cold, there. But, it
is some of the best we could find for a balanced mix. And the cost of
land is a half to a third of what we would find around here in
Virginia for the same size property. And, the land would lie better
there compared to land here in Virginia. Why Kentucky? Price of the
land, cost of living, and the climate.
For us, I guess our working
band was I-40 to I-70. Further south, too hot. Further north, too
cold. Rain fall for Kentucky is about 45 inches. Good for the
gardening and pasture. Further west, it starts getting too dry.
Mineral rights? In West
Virginia, they are almost non-existent. A drilling rig can go up
right outside your bedroom window. They can strip mine right up to
your front door. That means they bulldoze your orchard and forest and
driveway and whatever else you hold dear or have been working and
living for. You lose control of your life and destiny. In Kentucky,
most of the places we have looked at, you get the mineral rights. We
aren't interested in exercising those rights, we just don't want you
coming in and exercising them over our desires.
The same thing for the trees.
We want trees. We want them for their beauty and the wildlife in
them. We aren't interested in logging the trees.
And that brings us full circle
to: Why in the world do we want such a large piece of land? Kentucky
enables us to get the larger piece of land because of the cheaper
prices. But the price is cheaper because we aren't looking in the
city or in recreational areas or tourist areas. We are looking in the
country for farm land, out away from the towns and cities. Out where
the land is cheaper. Out where people usually know their neighbors
and talk to them and help each other. With a larger tract of land,
you don't have people crowding you and being nosey. Poking into your
business. You have less zoning. You don't have people telling you
that you can't have chickens or goats or pigs or a garden in the
front of the house. But, the driving force was cheaper land so we
could have more land. With more land, we have more options. We can
have the trees. Move forward twenty years. We need money. Sell off
the trees to get money. We need more money, sell off a chunk of land.
We need more money, sell another lot. The trees and land are a bank
account for future use, if needed. Cut and dried. Pure mercenary!
We don't think much about the
selling of the trees or the lots. That is “what if” stuff. That
is backup strategy stuff. But we all should be looking at the future
and asking ourselves what we would be able to do. We want to grow our
own food: plants and animals. We want to keep nosey neighbors at a
distance. We want long term strategy help. The “what if” stuff.
The long term bank account stuff.
Kentucky seemed to let us have
our cake and eat it, too.
Ralph
PS: I'm into “hit and run”.
I write. Pass to Fiona. She corrects my hillbilly ways. She posts.
And then she takes replies, questions, and flack. I get home and she
passes the sanitized version on to me. So, please, PLEASE! Any
questions or comments, please pass them along. It is a way of us
getting other views and observations. It helps us. It is a way for us
to learn. We don't have all the answers. We need your help. In the
end, we benefit from you. And that saves us money! Thank you for
taking the time to read this and our other posts and for helping us
in our adventure along life's way. May God bless and reward you and
be with you and yours.
